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I Resolve

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It’s almost a joke; we make New Year Resolutions and then break them within days. We resolve to lose weight, be kinder to friends or start a new hobby. I wonder how many of these resolutions will reach February. This all points to how really weak we human beings are. If we can’t keep to these small changes, how can we ever turn our lives round for the better.

How often have we promised God we won’t act in a certain way only to stumble very quickly. It goes to show we can’t do it on our own. No wonder God said we are as frail as dust. We are weak while He is strong. We can’t make it on are own. Maybe the only New Year Resolution we need to make is to rely on God more.

2024

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As a teenager I never imagined I would be alive to see this date. When a young woman I had no thought of what it would like to reach my eighties. How good God has been. Firstly He has allowed me to get here while a number of my friends have died far too early. Then as the years have rolled by we have all had ‘weary ways and golden days;’ our lives have been like a roller-coaster. Our memories are precious, there has been so much happiness, parcelled up with sadness. Decades have been either good or bad.

But, praise be, one thing is constant. God has never changed; His love and care are never altering. Seasons have come and gone, fortunes have varied, hope has died and been replenished. Wars have replaced peace; peace has followed war. But our God is constant, reliable and unfailing.

I wish all my readers a blessed and peaceful New Year.

A Beautiful but Broken World

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As we look at the beauty of nature around us we rejoice as it is such a lovely world. We travel thousands of miles to see the wonders, the Grand Canyon, Japan in blossom time, Nigeria Falls and snow -capped mountains. But we don’t need to travel the world, the beauty is right here on our door-step. We see the wonderfully formed daisy in our own lawns or the robin accompanying us as we garden. We see the trees, bursting into leaf in the spring, giving us shade in the summer, adorned in colour in autumn and with skeletal beauty in winter.

But we also admit we live in a broken world. There are wars, unnecessary killings, greed and terrible tragedies. A look at television or the papers portray only too clearly unbelievable horrors in all parts of the world. But that is not the final chapter. We have just celebrated the coming of Jesus. God is writing the final chapter. Eventually all will be light and joy, darkness will be vanquished. ‘He promises peace to His people.’ Psalm 85:5

Never the Same

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Today I think again of the wise men. They left the prestige of their own country to follow a star which they knew was a sign of the birth of a great king. During the many days of travelling their robes would have become travel-stained but still indicated that they were people of wealth. Those same clothes would be trailing in the dirt at the stable as they worshipped.

Having offered gifts and paying homage to the object of their journey they would make the long trail back home. After their encounter with the King of Kings their lives would never be the same again. it would be a fantastic story to tell their ancestors. As they walk out of history we will never know how much that impact was.

One thing we do know, our meeting with God will change our lives for ever. Just a glimpse of Jesus and His purpose for coming to earth will alter our very outlook on life. Our future will be directed by Him and away from our selfish desires. Oh that we may all have that glimpse of Him this Christmas.

They Stopped Looking

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Every year I think about the wise men who visited Jesus. It is thought they came from different countries but travelled together to follow a significant star and find the one who had been born king of the Jews. They had already travelled hundreds of miles following the star and then something went wrong. They didn’t know where to go next.

Did they stop looking at the star for guidance; it wasn’t switched off, it was still there. Why didn’t they continue looking upwards and continue being led. Their decision to visit Herod had tragic consequences, so many babies killed, so many parents grieving. When we stop looking to God, the results won’t be drastic but we will miss out on His blessings.

Smothered in Darkness

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As we have thoughts about the ‘light of the world’ coming into our lives, we cannot help but be aware of the darkness that is also in the world. The media gives us news of hunger, murders, killings in war and natural disasters. Even in my small life I’ve experienced death, heart attacks and family discord during the last couple of months. While we rejoice in the light , a tiny percentage of the world rejoices in darkness.

Have we been personally saddened in this season, have our hearts been weighted down by seemingly unanswered prayer? At least our hearts haven’t had to wait 400 years for an answer as the Israelites did. God, our maker is the master of darkness and light. We can’t always understand, why should darkness seem to prosper and why do we have to wait for answers to our prayers.? One day all will be revealed. Our job now is to ‘wait and pray’, to have faith and trust and as we read in Deuteronomy 32:4 ‘His word is perfect and all His ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong. Upright and just is He.’

Christmas Day – Light in the Darkness.

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The theme of light has pursued me this Christmas, right up to Christmas Eve. As I’ve recorded before, so many of my reflections and studies this season have been reflecting on light, the ‘light of the world.’ Like many people my past year has had darkness in it. I’ve spent more time than usual being unwell, I’ve had a house move which has meant loosening the ties of my old friends and forming new relationships. I have known bereavements and heartaches, though I readily admit my sadnesses are slight compared to many.

The light theme was re-enforced when i went to a Carol Service on Christmas Eve which was entitled ‘Light in the Darkness.’ The service started in almost complete dark and then as each carol was sung, or reading read, the light was slowly increased. Now we have turned the corner, Christ has come into the world as a baby, then a preacher and finally as a Saviour to save us from our sins and lead us to the eternal light which can never be extinguished.

We will continue to have dark paths during 2024 but we won’t be walking the pathway alone, Christ goes before illuminating the way.

King of Kings

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Here in the UK we are used to the idea of having a monarchy. I was born during the beginning of the reign of a king and after about 15 years on his death, he was replaced by his eldest daughter. After more than seventy years, she died and again we had a king, her eldest son. Most people, though not all, are in favour of a monarch but here they have little power to run the country. Recently all our kings and queens have been good people.

Unfortunately that hasn’t been true in many countries in the world. Some kings have been dictators and ruled their people with a rod of iron. To have such a king must make it difficult to imagine the King of Kings being the Saviour of the world. Revelation 17:14 tells us that our God is King of Kings and Lord of Lords and with Him will be His called, close and faithful followers. He is to be worshiped and adored, not rejected and feared.

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A Tough Christmas

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As we approach this Christmas season it is likely that things are not going well with us. We are probably struggling financially and we aren’t able afford the presents and trappings that we feel would make our Christmas better. Some of us are dreading the empty chair that will be at our festivities. Maybe the family and friends we still have are not compatible and we are expecting tensions.

That first Christmas wasn’t a bundle of laughs for Mary and Joseph either. Being heavily pregnant and expecting a long ride wasn’t going to be pleasant for Mary. Mary and Joseph were parted from family and friends who had come to accept their illegal situation. Strangers wouldn’t be so tolerant. The long trip to Bethlehem would incur financial strain to the couple as Joseph would be away from his workshop.You could say Jesus came down to earth with a bump, all because of His love for us.

Tears are Prayers

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I pray that I may never lose the ability to cry. It isn’t that I want gushing crocodile tears but just ones that are described as ‘a tear in my eye.’ We hear of sad tragic stories, we read of the horrors of war and on our own doorsteps we notice little human sadnesses. These tales tug at our heart-strings.Our minds contract and a pricking is felt behind the eye.

We pray that we may always be moved to compassion, there is no shortages of troubles in this world. In many cases there is nothing or little we can do. Often we are not even sure how to pray.We read Psalm 56 that our prayers are so precious to Him that He puts them in a bottle.

We have a good example in Jesus, when we read that He wept. His heart was moved with compassion when He was here on this earth. What a privilege it is for us also to weep. In our tears we know that we are no alone. We weep for the world; Christ weeps for the world. Our sorrows are His sorrows. With the hymn-writer we can say, ‘could our tears for ever flow,’ for ourselves and for the world.Jesus didn’t just weep, He came and redeemed.