‘If you’ve had a kindness shown, pass it on.’ I’m not quite sure where that phrase came from but my mother was always quoting it to me. Matthew says the same thing in his gospel ‘So in everything do to others what you would have them do to you.’ Matthew 7:12 In our me, me, me society we sometimes forget this attitude.
As a rule of thumb I always try to leave people happier after an encounter with me. It is not as simple as it sounds What about the driver who cuts me up and then hoots at me as if I’m in the wrong? Kindness doesn’t always work . What about my neighbour who complains about the rubbish that is blown into her garden when it is not me who has dropped any rubbish? I don ‘t have any control over the wind.
I’m saddened by the fact that people have less kindness since the pandemic. I go out of my way to speak to shop-keepers and smile at strangers. One day I was reflecting on my interaction with four shop-keepers whose shops I had visited in one day. On each occasion I had had a little laugh with the people involved and temporarily made them feel happier. I had been able to pass on kindness to others.