The Heart of the Matter

‘Are you greater than our father, Jacob?’ asks the Samaritan woman of Jesus at the well. The answer is a million time ‘Yes.’ The woman was good at avoiding answering the really important questions and asking distracting ones. The arguments she used are still used in the modern day by non-believers. She brings us the male versus female issue – a Samaritan woman and a Jewish man. We often bring up differences between men and women, forgetting that God wants us to complement each other not aim for superiority. It is so sad to hear unkind remarks about our opposite sex; we should be partnerships, each helping each other. This woman also exploits the differences in forms of worship. Today, some people like noisy worship, others worship in quietness. Some have ornate churches and cathedrals, while others have no ornaments save a single cross. How easily we forget that we worship the same God, whatever our style of praise and worship.

With the woman at the well, Jesus pulls her back to basics. He tells her ‘The time is coming and has now come, when the true worshipper will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipper the Father seeks,’ John 4:23. May we be that kind of worshipper.

Time to Listen

Anyone who has reached old age will know only too well the disadvantages. With old age comes less mobility, more pain, failing of mind or body and a general feeling of wearing out. But I can assure you there are many advantages. Firstly, we all know people who haven’t had the privilege of reaching their three score years and ten. One of the many pluses is that no longer do others have high expectations of us, which we can’t attain to. No longer are we CEO’s or world leaders. I still can’t get used to people offering me a seat on the bus, it used to be the other way round.

One of the greatest blessings is having time to listen to people. Three times recently people have gone out of their way to spend time with me and share their problems and worries. Maybe they didn’t want to burden families or maybe the family was the problem. I can’t say I’ve given any special words of wisdom or wonderful advice, but I’ve just listened. I have had the time. Sometimes we have been able to pray together and sometimes I’ve prayed for them later. Jesus is our example, He had time to listen to the woman at the well.